Country Star Leaving Music Industry for Seminary

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Well, I don't know....I'll be 61 in 9 days...been on disability for 23 years, and have both a cane and also a walker. They're talking about possibly putting me in a wheelchair. My mother and biological father are both 80..Pops will be 81 at the end of May. They both already have their scooters! LOL I always loved scooter races! :D
 
Well, I don't know....I'll be 61 in 9 days...been on disability for 23 years, and have both a cane and also a walker. They're talking about possibly putting me in a wheelchair. My mother and biological father are both 80..Pops will be 81 at the end of May. They both already have their scooters! LOL I always loved scooter races! :D
Let’s hope you can stay out of the wheelchair for a few more years. 🙏🏻
 
or put another way..... could it be acceptable for a baptist or similarly believing christian to take part in the activities of a church considered pagan or idolatrous?..... ..could taking part ..or just simply being there to sit with other saved and like minded christians ...who are actual members.... be considered an opportunity for ministry?

to what extent should christian separation go?...... and should christians who believe in secondary separation - separation themselves even from that individual who sees no problem occasionally serving in this other church?........ :unsure:

1) For my perspective, I don't believe that all members of the RC church are unsaved
2) I don't practice secondary separation, and, I don't think my form of "separation" fits within the usual militant IFB definition, because it should be used as a last resort, just like corporal punishment.
3) I couldn't "minister" within the context of participating in an active worship/mass service. My conscience would not let me.
4) If a person did "minister" to those within that context (to the extent of how I would envision such "ministry") it would probably result in not being allowed by the priest/bishop/deacon to continue such a "ministry".
5) I'd imagine the same parameters outlined in 1-4 above would apply quite similarly in a "bar" (not a dining establishment that happened to serve booze, nor an entertainment venue that served alcohol).
 
He appears to be SBC. The crux of the matter is that he wanted to be in the ministry, and instead of being counseled and encouraged to pursue that calling, he was instead being encouraged by some ministers to continue his former lifestyle and career as a country music singer as his “ministry.”

I don’t happen to believe that singing non-Christian music in bars constitutes “ministry,” nor do I believe sitting in a bar and ordering rounds of drinks qualifies as ministry. I actually believe both are antithetical to that ministerial purpose. I’m not saying it’s not possible to find an opportunity to share your testimony in such a setting, but I certainly never heard the Gospel shared inside a bar, nor did I ever do so myself. All that being said, if a Christian has a clear conscience and truly believes he can go into bars and order drinks and effectively witness for Christ, then that’s between him and God. It definitely wouldn’t be something I’d do, and my experiences in bars resulted in shameful behavior, not God glorifying.
I pretty much agree. The places I am/was familiar with that are called "bars" wouldn't easily allow for relationship-building and witnessing in a way that I am familiar with. I've been in college bars, worker bars, slum bars, etc, and the usual m.o. for the patrons there wasn't to build relationships with Christians, but rather to get drunk, hooked-up, and fight, in that order. That's not to say my anecdotal experience(s) covers the entire gamut of "bars", and to the extent that the purpose of the patrons is not to primarily do those three things listed above I'd say your chances may be a bit better at successfully "ministering".
 
i agree with you on that point.... and like i said... i fully undestand the decision this man made.... ... in fact i completely support him on it...... i don;t believe anyone studying and training for full time christian ministry should be playing music in a bar...... or be conflicted in any way especially if that way includes secular intertainment or an activity that could be viewed as unethical or questionable... . and i understand too well the difficulty of trying to make it through a college program and deal with distractions and negative influences at the same time.... ...

but he would still have to make money and earn his way through school in one way or another and i can see a problem and conflict coming up there too if he didn;t have another way to do that.... ....... unless someone is paying his way or he is independently rich, he will have to come up with money ..a way to make a living.... and i can;t imagine it;s good for a pastor to go into the ministry with a huge monetary debt over his head....... .. but maybe some do.... i really don;t know.......

as far as other christians and whether or not they could patronize a bar and consider being there part of a ministry at the same time.... i guess it would depend on the bar....... if it;s the kind i know of and which you wrote about, then i say absolutely not.... .. but if it;s something closer to a grill that just happens to serve alcohol and have a live band too..... then i would have to say i don;t know... i would think that if a christian would not take their children into a place.. and especially if they would be ashamed for their mom or dad to see them there... then they probably should not be in there either.... ...unless they are in there as part of an emergency rescue operation.. or a police officer on the job...

the anti-valentines day parties we use to have were in places that had bars and restaurants together.... most nicer places here do.... but children were present on both sides of it.. ... and i don;t remember anyone there ever being visibly drunk... some of the women that came to that party did order drinks... ...but none of us who did the planning - set it all up - or who were the regulars at it every year drank... ... because the party lasted all night and ended about an hour before sunrise when we would grab our surfboards and hit the waves - to do what;s called "surfing the dawn patrol"... ..going out there with even one drink in your system is a good way to assure you don;t make it back.....

in the world of emergency response it;s a common saying that if you can be happy doing some other job then do it... but if saving lives and making the positive difference in others is in your blood you won;t be happy anywhere else.. .. it;s a life of service that requires sacrifices most people have no comprehension of... .. .. . and i;m sure it;s the same with the ministry.... maybe even more so..... if God has called you to do that with your life then He won;t let you be comfortable following some other path.. and He wants you looking forward and dedicated to it with everything you have..... and if necessary He will even make you despise distractions and hinderances to what He has called you to do.... ..

denying oneself sometimes becomes denying those close to you as well - even if they are unable to understand at that moment why you can;t be where they want you to be.... or even where they need you to be at some given time.... ..you can never despise them but at those times they might think you do... i;m not in the ministry and have never been a first responder myself... but i finished growing up as the child of one.. and i understand that side of it very well . .
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I remember "sitting in" with a friend's band and playing at a food truck park in the north part of Houston. It was a gig that was earlier in the evening and definitely NOT a bar (although you could still buy a beer). Much more family oriented with kids running around playing all over the place. I was joking around with the lead singer saying "There are kids running around here so you have to watch your language!" and he quickly responded with "Oh **** that!" :ROFLMAO: I really loved playing there and if there more venues like this, I certainly wouldn't mind playing out on occasion. I also had a friend who owned a restaurant. He was a committed Christian and I played there on a monthly basis with another friend in an acoustic duo setting. Here, I had opportunity to play all of my original material including many of my Christian songs and I was free to talk about the Lord as well. I also didn't mind the fact that I was packing up and going home about the same time all of my "Bar Friends" were setting up and just getting started! I would gladly go out and play such gigs if they were to ever pop up again. I am sure that music will continue to play a big part in this gentleman's life and who knows what role it may play in his upcoming "ministry."
 
At least where I live, nearly 100% of restaurants serve alcohol. I’ve never heard a single person say they’re “going to a bar” when it meant a restaurant. Going “to the bar” means an establishment that has a primary purpose of serving harder alcoholic beverages and not food. A “restaurant” has a primary purpose of providing food and the alcohol is secondary. I guess the lines could get blurred depending upon which state (or even county within a state) a person lives.
 
At least where I live, nearly 100% of restaurants serve alcohol. I’ve never heard a single person say they’re “going to a bar” when it meant a restaurant. Going “to the bar” means an establishment that has a primary purpose of serving harder alcoholic beverages and not food. A “restaurant” has a primary purpose of providing food and the alcohol is secondary. I guess the lines could get blurred depending upon which state (or even county within a state) a person lives.
Taking another curve: What about the fabled "White Horse Tavern" in Cambridge, England? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/White_Horse_Tavern,_Cambridge
 
Read the Wikipedia article. It was supposedly a meeting place to discuss "Lutheran" ideas and center to the beginning of the English reformation. I learned about this on the "Refnet" online podcast.
I did. I’ve heard of it before. I’m just not sure the connection you’re making with bars in the 21st century.
 
I did. I’ve heard of it before. I’m just not sure the connection you’re making with bars in the 21st century.
Just an interesting observation that taverns have often been part of pivotal events in human history - including the American Revolution. Also interesting how such a "House of Ill Repute" was used by God to spark the reformation in Europe! Could you imagine discussing Lutheran doctrine over a mug of ale? Also interesting to note that most Lut'rans and other "Reformed" folk are not teetotalers! That ought to get a few Babtists knickers in a knot! :LOL:
 
And Jesus turned water into wine. Like I’ve said several times, I don’t view an occasional drink as a sin, though I know plenty of folks who do. I just won’t call bars “ministerial opportunities.” But…that’s just me. At the end of the day, everyone is responsible before God for their own actions.
 
I like to golf. Golfing is notoriously a gambler's lair. I don't participate in that aspect of the game, and avoid the usual crowd at the nearby course who roll that way. Maybe I could join that "Bucket-ball" wagering cohort and start a ministry to cussing club-breakers who are addicted to the skins worse than Art Schlischter and Peter Edward Rose 😁
 
I like to golf. Golfing is notoriously a gambler's lair. I don't participate in that aspect of the game, and avoid the usual crowd at the nearby course who roll that way. Maybe I could join that "Bucket-ball" wagering cohort and start a ministry to cussing club-breakers who are addicted to the skins worse than Art Schlischter and Peter Edward Rose 😁
Most of that went sailing right over my head.

A lot of golfers talk about shooting a 72 in 18 holes... BIG DEAL! I can rack up a 90 by the 9th hole!
 
Most of that went sailing right over my head.

A lot of golfers talk about shooting a 72 in 18 holes... BIG DEAL! I can rack up a 90 by the 90th hole!
Schlischter is a OSU Buckeye football quarterback legend who is about as notorious as it gets when it comes to gambling/vice (imprisoned because he can't quit being stupid/addicted to gambling). Rose was banned from baseball for life (at one time, still not allowed in the Hall of Fame) for betting on baseball. Golf is a hotbed of gambling. Booze and gambling can fall in the same category of controversial/debatable adiaphora, so I'm gonna go put a few bucks on my putting and preach the fire out of 'em!
 
Schlischter is a OSU Buckeye football quarterback legend who is about as notorious as it gets when it comes to gambling/vice (imprisoned because he can't quit being stupid/addicted to gambling). Rose was banned from baseball for life (at one time, still not allowed in the Hall of Fame) for betting on baseball. Golf is a hotbed of gambling. Booze and gambling can fall in the same category of controversial/debatable adiaphora, so I'm gonna go put a few bucks on my putting and preach the fire out of 'em!
Never heard of Schlischter. When you used Pete Rose's middle name, that one whiffed right past me.

I'd join a gaming ministry in golf if I could get 5:1 for highest score.
 
Never heard of Schlischter. When you used Pete Rose's middle name, that one whiffed right past me.

I'd join a gaming ministry in golf if I could get 5:1 for highest score.
Breaking 100 is a “good” score for me these days, but I only play a few times a year now. I play as much in a year as I used to play in a month!
 
It's the same in most of the mainland. We frequent several places that serve alcohol, but they have food, and even have separate rooms for gatherings. They're considered a "bar and grill. "


My 1/2 sister was a "pole dancer" in Louisville, KY, and there were times she had to take her kids to work with her. They sat in the section where they couldn't see the nudity but were still able to see people being served alcohol. I'm pretty sure they knew what was going on since their mother practiced her "craft" at home on the pole she had in her living room.

One of the professors in the first Bible college I attended flew in once a week from New Mexico...in one of his chapel sermons, he states that he would eat in a "Burly-Q" if they served a good enough steak. I won't give his name since he's passed on, but I can tell you he was one of the strangest IFB pastors I had ever met.
i usually stayed in the room either next to or behind the stage.... most were a combination storage dressing room...... and my mom and other dancers would be there when taking a break - the rest of the time they were out on the stage or on the floor.... .. i usually had a good view of the stage and the poles... and sometimes part of the crowd... saw just about everything there was to see in a place like that - including some pretty brutal fights... . ...but i had coloring books and crayons...mcdonald toys... happy meals and snacks..... whatever i needed to stay busy and not get too bored or too hungry.... sometimes other dancers would make comments to my mom about me ... saying things like i can;t believe you bring your kid here.... she would just tell them to mind their own business.....

my mom did not have a pole at home... ..she wasn;t all that good on it anyway.... but from what people said she had been good once back in the day - back around the time my sister was born.... but by the time i came along she was past it - but had no other legal way to make a living... and that;s why all the things that happened after that happened.. .. or so she said. ... she said it was my fault for ruining her body by being born.... ... never mind she was already in her 30s by that time trying to do something meant for 20 year olds... ..when she started getting too many jeers and insults from the crowd she quit.. and from then on everything she did was illegal....
 
1) For my perspective, I don't believe that all members of the RC church are unsaved
2) I don't practice secondary separation, and, I don't think my form of "separation" fits within the usual militant IFB definition, because it should be used as a last resort, just like corporal punishment.
3) I couldn't "minister" within the context of participating in an active worship/mass service. My conscience would not let me.
4) If a person did "minister" to those within that context (to the extent of how I would envision such "ministry") it would probably result in not being allowed by the priest/bishop/deacon to continue such a "ministry".
5) I'd imagine the same parameters outlined in 1-4 above would apply quite similarly in a "bar" (not a dining establishment that happened to serve booze, nor an entertainment venue that served alcohol).
My uncle is a member of the RCC...and my aunt, who used to be married to a youth minister (he lost that when he started cheating on her with a woman at work)...is now an attendee at the RCC. So, I know of two saved people who attend the RCC church in their area. Too many IFB/Militant types like to go overboard and condemn everyone and everything they don't agree with. Too bad for them...they're incorrect, and they drive people from Christ.
 
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