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brainisengaged said:Yes! I believe there are many who feel a lie was told from the pulpit that Sunday morning in July of 2012...
Believe it or not (I know my disparaging posts will make this hard to believe), I am trying to let EL off the hook in my own mind. I am TRYING to let it go.
But he did, if memory serves, get up there and say, in a fairly rambling speech that had my antennae up -- Pastor Schaap is on vacation in Maine right now. But he is sick. Very sick, his old health issues have returned. (Prostate) He is so sick, I flew to Maine to see him. I talked to him and to Cindy for a long, long time. He works too hard. We urge him constantly to take more time off. The burden of this church is so great...He is going to take some time off. He may be off for a long time. Maybe months. We told him, however long he needs to just get better.
Of course after all this time, I really am paraphrasing. But it was like, "Ok, he is so sick he is in dire straits. But he is in a remote area of Maine where he can't be close to his doctor or his hospital. Why did ELapina have to fly there....presumably also on the church's dime....to talk to him about the fact he is sick and needs to take more time off? Did not ring true.
And, turned out to be not true at all. This is all getting rather faded in my memory, but by then didn't ELapina know about the lewd photographs being discovered? The whole Youth Conference debacle had taken place the week before. I have heard that it was not merely ELapina that flew to Maine, and that it was not for the purpose of urging the pastor to take more time off and better care for his health.
To me, then, that was a lie. It either represents a person whose own character sees no problem with lying or a person who feels the church is so important it is necessary to do anything to protect it. Either viewpoint is disturbing to me. (I feel at FBC we make an idol of The Church)
I applaud the fact, Tides of Truth, that you went to speak to ELapina on this matter. I have heard of someone else doing the same. I do not know what answer the other person was given, but he has left the church. He did say he represented many people who wanted an answer.
What I want to know is, why do we have to personally go one by one and ask him to explain what SEEMED like a bald-faced lie that has many people disturbed to this day? Why can't he get up and explain himself publically? I would be entirely satisfied if he ever once would publically (and he has had plenty of opportunities behind the microphone on the platform) explain to us why he thought it best to say what he said. I would believe him and I would accept what he had to say. But he will never publically acknowledge it, and that is disturbing to me.
Hey, EL was given a standing ovation by David Gibbs and the people of FBCH for the fine job he did during the transition. Surely that makes everything ok.