there are few things a waiter can do that will irritate me more, than either trying to take a plate away from me... ..or to keep coming back asking about it after i told them no.... i actually yelled at a waiter once for grabbing a plate without
even asking, .. ... .. it still had spaghetti sauce in it that i was still mopping up and eating with a piece of garlic bread.... ..(he acted shocked but doesn;t everybody do that?).... he quickly apologized and put the plate back on the
table but the damage was done... had i been in charge of paying the bill he
would have definitely lost his tip...