Cindy filed for divorce.

[Still There]

I don't know if Mike Schaap is related to Jack Schaap but his wife Cindy is not the former Cindy Hyles Schaap.

No, this is not a mistake.  Cindy Schaap's maiden name was Zych.  She went to HB

 

[qwerty]

I don't know if Mike Schaap is related to Jack Schaap but his wife Cindy is not the former Cindy Hyles Schaap.

Are you saying that is who the OP is about?

If so, quite the coincidence.

Edit: nevermind.... Finally saw what you were referencing.  Coffee is still brewing.

 

[qwerty]

We all know about this one,... I am led to wonder if there were others.

I couldn't help but think of a 17 year old girl from Chicago when he first assumed the pastorate. She had made a bit of a scene in his line about needing to see him and he had her escorted out of line. Sometime shortly after that she had committed suicide. Maybe it was all coincidental in timing,... But I wonder.

Qwerty do you remember what I am referring to?

Get out of my head !

 

[RAIDER]

Hi, I was subjected to King Jack and Queen Cindy and Prince Ken and Princess Jaclynn for over a dozen years. I bought the lie that they were the best Christians on the face of this earth. A lie they perpetrated relentlessly, by the way. The perfect plastic first family of fundamentalism. God's chosen, God's pets, God's most highly blessed and anointed. We adored them, we doted on them, we panted after them the way America pants after her celebrities. Some still do...but not I.

I think I can comment on the turn things have taken, but thank you anyway for your admonition.

You go, girl!

 

[Bravo]

We all know about this one,... I am led to wonder if there were others.

I couldn't help but think of a 17 year old girl from Chicago when he first assumed the pastorate. She had made a bit of a scene in his line about needing to see him and he had her escorted out of line. Sometime shortly after that she had committed suicide. Maybe it was all coincidental in timing,... But I wonder.

Qwerty do you remember what I am referring to?

Get out of my head !

Talk to me. You think there may have been a link?

 

[IFB X-Files]

Just saw this: CINDY SCHAAP FILED FOR DIVORCE IN DURHAM COUNTY, NORTH CAROLINA ON MAY 29, 2014. The filing number is 14CVD345. This information was provided to me by the Durham County Court Clerk on June 4, 2014.

Anyone know how to check and see if it is true?

OK.  I just spoke to the clerk.  Cindy Lynn Schaap  filled for divorce from Jack Allan Schaap on March 21, 2014.  According to the Clerk, the divorce was granted on May 29, 2014.

 

[Bravo]

Just saw this: CINDY SCHAAP FILED FOR DIVORCE IN DURHAM COUNTY, NORTH CAROLINA ON MAY 29, 2014. The filing number is 14CVD345. This information was provided to me by the Durham County Court Clerk on June 4, 2014.

Anyone know how to check and see if it is true?

OK.  I just spoke to the clerk.  Cindy Lynn Schaap  filled for divorce from Jack Allan Schaap on March 21, 2014.  According to the Clerk, the divorce was granted on May 29, 2014.

That seems awfully fast?

 

[IFB X-Files]

Just saw this: CINDY SCHAAP FILED FOR DIVORCE IN DURHAM COUNTY, NORTH CAROLINA ON MAY 29, 2014. The filing number is 14CVD345. This information was provided to me by the Durham County Court Clerk on June 4, 2014.

Anyone know how to check and see if it is true?

OK.  I just spoke to the clerk.  Cindy Lynn Schaap  filled for divorce from Jack Allan Schaap on March 21, 2014.  According to the Clerk, the divorce was granted on May 29, 2014.

That seems awfully fast?

Obviously Jack did not contest it and this frees him to marry Bubba.

 

[kaba]

While I think she had every reason to divorce the scum. I hope her eyes are open that all things are not black and white, and all the conferences she taught about staying with your man comes back to haunt her!

 

[Bruh]

While I think she had every reason to divorce the scum. I hope her eyes are open that all things are not black and white, and all the conferences she taught about staying with your man comes back to haunt her!

My mother always says "It pays to keep your mouth shut".

 

[qwerty]

We all know about this one,... I am led to wonder if there were others.

I couldn't help but think of a 17 year old girl from Chicago when he first assumed the pastorate. She had made a bit of a scene in his line about needing to see him and he had her escorted out of line. Sometime shortly after that she had committed suicide. Maybe it was all coincidental in timing,... But I wonder.

Qwerty do you remember what I am referring to?

Get out of my head !

Talk to me. You think there may have been a link?

I will respond with a little bit more to you message.

Yes, I think there was a link.  I do not think that it was as bad as the current incident, but I do believe that there may have been some communication between them.  I was just talking with a former Staff member about a month ago about that incident and it both came to our minds when the latest news broke.

 

[Still There]

Just saw this: CINDY SCHAAP FILED FOR DIVORCE IN DURHAM COUNTY, NORTH CAROLINA ON MAY 29, 2014. The filing number is 14CVD345. This information was provided to me by the Durham County Court Clerk on June 4, 2014.

Anyone know how to check and see if it is true?

OK.  I just spoke to the clerk.  Cindy Lynn Schaap  filled for divorce from Jack Allan Schaap on March 21, 2014.  According to the Clerk, the divorce was granted on May 29, 2014.

Well, I'm very happy of Cindy.  Finally for the first time, she's made a very wise decision. 

 

[TidesofTruth]

Hi, I was subjected to King Jack and Queen Cindy and Prince Ken and Princess Jaclynn for over a dozen years. I bought the lie that they were the best Christians on the face of this earth. A lie they perpetrated relentlessly, by the way. The perfect plastic first family of fundamentalism. God's chosen, God's pets, God's most highly blessed and anointed. We adored them, we doted on them, we panted after them the way America pants after her celebrities. Some still do...but not I.

I think I can comment on the turn things have taken, but thank you anyway for your admonition.

In the words of Red Dawn's Lieutenant Colonel Andrew Tanner: All that hate is gonna burn you up kid.

 

[BALAAM]

Hi, I was subjected to King Jack and Queen Cindy and Prince Ken and Princess Jaclynn for over a dozen years. I bought the lie that they were the best Christians on the face of this earth. A lie they perpetrated relentlessly, by the way. The perfect plastic first family of fundamentalism. God's chosen, God's pets, God's most highly blessed and anointed. We adored them, we doted on them, we panted after them the way America pants after her celebrities. Some still do...but not I.

I think I can comment on the turn things have taken, but thank you anyway for your admonition.

In the words of Red Dawn's Lieutenant Colonel Andrew Tanner: All that hate is gonna burn you up kid.

FYI She doesn't hate. She feels duped and used. Just like a slick talking investment deal. Pretty much the same thing here.

 

[brainisengaged]

Thank you, Balaam. You are correct.

 

[Sherryh]

Well stated when you preach or teach being faithful and then your husband does wrong..........it has to completely turn your world upside down. I have never experienced this and my heart hopes she recovers......

 

[fishinnut]

Maybe she has a new song in her heart.....
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=06zOrHRh-gY

 

[TidesofTruth]

Hi, I was subjected to King Jack and Queen Cindy and Prince Ken and Princess Jaclynn for over a dozen years. I bought the lie that they were the best Christians on the face of this earth. A lie they perpetrated relentlessly, by the way. The perfect plastic first family of fundamentalism. God's chosen, God's pets, God's most highly blessed and anointed. We adored them, we doted on them, we panted after them the way America pants after her celebrities. Some still do...but not I.

I think I can comment on the turn things have taken, but thank you anyway for your admonition.

In the words of Red Dawn's Lieutenant Colonel Andrew Tanner: All that hate is gonna burn you up kid.

Well you use the word WE like all of us did and that is simply not true.  Obviously some did but WE did no such thing.  Many of WE were praying that God would fix him or remove him.  Many of the WE were writing letters to him and staff outlining doctrinal issues that needed to be addressed.  So I understand being angry at yourself for doing the things you admit However I wouldn't be so quick to use WE when it means YOU.  And furthermore, your anger or resentment or whatever you want to call it will not hurt WE, it will only hurt YOU.  I have seen too much throughout my years.  I can trot out hundreds of examples.

So now you know/understand your responsibilities as a believer.  Your responsibilities are to be a berean.  Sure you can blame the system for teaching not to be but you know better now.  It wasn't like you were told not to study the Bible for yourself and it wasn't like you were told not to have your own walk with God.  In all your personal devotions did you not read: 1Pe 5:8  Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour: and 1Th 5:21  Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.  You've been saved for a good long time.  You had your own spiritual growth to be responsible for.  For years nothing passes through my ears without the discretion of the Word of God to prove what is true and what is not.  For many years I have realized spiritual growth happens only in the quietness of my prayerful walk and the solitude of the long night of grief and not in the loud booming  of a Sunday Night rally cry.  So many others could be blamed but my growth has never been about them.  It was never about them.  My service has always been for God and Him alone in which others have benefited but the reward and the protection for me and my family was God.  If I did it for God, no man could burn me out.  If I did it for God, No man could abuse me.  If I did it for God, No man's mistakes could hurt me.  One sure thing to learn and understand is that everything man touches is corrupted.  But everything God touches is restored and renewed.  When Christ makes all things New it wasn't just talking about someday.  It is talking about NOW.  So if we go about doing the Father's business He can and will restore that which the devourer keeps corrupting.

I just know that if I understand as God does that we are but clay and people are bound to fail but keep looking for the Good and allow God to do His perfect will He can fix messes.  And in doing so I can maybe allow God's grace flow through me on others so they might have a chance for restoral as well.    Does it mean we ignore evil?  Absolutely not!  But we should have God's heart when dealing with other's sin.

Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,  Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;  Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

Believe for good in others, hope for the best in others and when they fail you endure with grace and work towards God's restoral.

 

[brainisengaged]

Ha! Point taken! I should not presume to speak for others...I've corrected others for doing the same in the past...and yet I am certain I am not the only one...I was using the corporate 'we' to express the prevailing sentiment of many...so more correct would have been to say 'many' or even 'most' of us!

And please do not make ME the issue! It is called 'venting'. Significant events bring about a rush of emotion. It is very pious and wise of you to assert your service has always and only been for God alone. My faith in God has never wavered, but I have certainly been given serious cause to wonder if He is with FBC Hammond or if we are playing a hollow little game of church. It is a valid concern, seeing what we have been subjected to these last two regimes.

 

[TidesofTruth]

Ha! Point taken! I should not presume to speak for others...I've corrected others for doing the same in the past...and yet I am certain I am not the only one...I was using the corporate 'we' to express the prevailing sentiment of many...so more correct would have been to say 'many' or even 'most' of us!

And please do not make ME the issue! It is called 'venting'. Significant events bring about a rush of emotion. It is very pious and wise of you to assert your service has always and only been for God alone. My faith in God has never wavered, but I have certainly been given serious cause to wonder if He is with FBC Hammond or if we are playing a hollow little game of church. It is a valid concern, seeing what we have been subjected to these last two regimes.

Sorry I added more to that post after a time.  Didn't mean to pile on I just thought it important to say.  And I understand venting.  I write sometimes not just at the person I quote but for others lurking.