It is unconfirmed, but I was told that Cindy Schaap has filed for divorce from Jack. I am not intending to take pleasure in the dissolution of a marriage or add to the level of suffering but, if this is true, I wonder about the reasoning behind the accolades of of the wonderful marriage proclaimed by Cindy in two separate support letters prior to sentencing. I have more thoughts on the whole subject for later posts.
Cindy filed for divorce?
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I realize that shock has become part of our recent thought patters when it pertains to FBCH. This would be another shock to me. I'm not trying to bury my head in the sand, but at this time I don't believe it to be true.
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Whoa, Whoa, Whoa.
I don't mean to discredit you or your unpublished source. But, I have see allot of guessing, supposition and hear-it-through-the-grapevine dogma on the old forum and even this one that is just flat wrong. This does not coincide with all of the other reports I have heard about how the family is trying to deal with the horrific situation they are all in.
I don't mean to discredit you or your unpublished source. But, I have see allot of guessing, supposition and hear-it-through-the-grapevine dogma on the old forum and even this one that is just flat wrong. This does not coincide with all of the other reports I have heard about how the family is trying to deal with the horrific situation they are all in.
That's why I qualified my statement. The source seemed to accept it as fact and told me the origin of the information. It may be poppycock but if I really thought the source wasn't credible, I would not have posted it.
Is it really shocking? It's actually the logical thing to do.
Is it really shocking? It's actually the logical thing to do.
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Yes, I heard it from a friend of hers. She also "donated" everything he owned. Sold his motorcycle and all his jewelry. Very sad. She is also selling the house and moving somewhere, no one knows. Not this area. Apparently wants no contact with him.
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RAIDER said:
She has every Scriptural right to divorce him. Staying would require immeasurable grace, which God does provide, but may be more than her human emotion can bear right now. Plus, she may realize that he has not yet come to a place of real repentance and therefore could not even receiver her grace if she offered it. Understandable, yet shocking based on the stories of commitment I had heard.
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Cindy has every right to do whatever she wants...............Good for her.......it's nice to see women with brains and a backbone!!
This is just my guess but she would then be able to rebuild credit, monies without his name attached
This is just my guess but she would then be able to rebuild credit, monies without his name attached
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It makes me sad for her, make no mistake.
I did hear that at the sentencing hearing she chose on purpose to sit where he could not see her...
It makes me sad for her, make no mistake.
I did hear that at the sentencing hearing she chose on purpose to sit where he could not see her...
There was some speculation that there may be a liability component. The victim's family is allegedly filing a civil suit and the thinking is the divorce would insulate Cindy from financial responsibility for the potential settlement. I have no idea legally if that would actually work or if it is even a part of her motivation - presuming the divorce filing information is legit.
It does make you wonder:
Were the letters to the judge less than honest?
The judge was recommending a facility close so the family could visit - but all the information I have is that his wife, son and daughter are all moving out of the area anyway.
Did Cindy have a revelation upon hearing or reading the prosecution's statement about the overwhelming evidence?
Are there more victims coming forward?
Are there potential embezzlement charges coming?
Was the 12 year sentence the deciding factor?
Were the letters to the judge less than honest?
The judge was recommending a facility close so the family could visit - but all the information I have is that his wife, son and daughter are all moving out of the area anyway.
Did Cindy have a revelation upon hearing or reading the prosecution's statement about the overwhelming evidence?
Are there more victims coming forward?
Are there potential embezzlement charges coming?
Was the 12 year sentence the deciding factor?
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Maybe she realized he is still not being forthright. Not completely repentant. Grace can be offered. But if the offender refuses to repent......
But here we go with the supposing..... Not really like any of us actually know.
My vote is that we IFBers and you haters all just leave her alone, pray for her and allow her close friends be her help. She is not the criminal.
But here we go with the supposing..... Not really like any of us actually know.
My vote is that we IFBers and you haters all just leave her alone, pray for her and allow her close friends be her help. She is not the criminal.
I had heard a week ago from someone in the prosecutor's office that she was going to file. I don't know how he knew it but I really think this whole thing is far worse and far deeper than she initially thought.
prophet said:
prophet said:
She will never be free. If she were 20's or 30's she could leave and get married again and maybe have some type of longing that it just never worked out. When you are in your 50's and have grandchildren, this is something that will haunt you for the rest of your life.
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Cindy has every right to remarry if she wanted...her husband violated his oath to her...she is free. I believe it's for her best come to the islands and live no one will ever know your name. 8)