Sure there are lines that can be crossed. But that’s not for you to decide. God didn’t appoint you as his policeman here on earth. We are to dress as laid out in scripture. If something is not found in scripture maybe God left it up to the believer to make those judgments, not you the self appointed judge of women’s dress.
Women who dress inappropriately do not seek to please the Lord. I have seen women who profess to be Christians dress in a way that would make a sailor blush. Its alright to speak against requiring men to wear military haircuts or women wearing pants (rightfully so), but some go to the opposite extreme and can't even admit that there is a seductive way women dress that is uncalled for in the church. Its different when lost people dress like lost people but some things should not be tolerated in the church for professing Christians. Once again, is a pastor a legalist for not allowing inappropriate dress for a choir member?
the fff has never had a shortage of men ready to blame women for every little evil or idle thought that enters their mind.... ..it;s one of the reasons so few of us ever take part here..... ...
There is also never a shortage of men and women who lay everything on the man. The only shame some people have is accusing others while guilty of the same thing.
and how do you know what other people... much less women... seek to do or not do where God is concerned?....... has God made you a reader of minds as well as a judge of proper attire?... ..and what;s with this obsession over the attire of choir members?... .... does your church not have robes for the choir?..... are people coming straight from the beach to the gallery to pick up hymnals and sing?.......... ........ for your information i sometimes fill in with a special music ensemble at a church my natural sister took me to when i first came here.... ..we have robes that go from head to toe ..and everybody in the group is dressed exactly alike........ but it wouldn;t matter anyway coz few people ever see us unles they twist around and look up (risking whiplash)... to see the small gallery above the sanctuary we are standing in.... ..
i have been on the fff almost 20 years... since i was literally teenager like i told someone a few days ago.... and i have seen men blame women... (even cutting us down visciously for no other reason than their own entertainment).... far many more times than i have seen women blame men.... especially not starting a thread just for the purpose of doing it.... and when it;s threads like this one that focus on christian attire it;s almost entirely focused on what women wear... with very few to no comments made on the attire of men.....
There’s nothing wrong with a pastor requiring women to dress according to scripture. If doesn’t have a chapter and verse he needs not put requirements on Gods people that God doesn't require.
What about a skirt or dress?
From what I have found it's not limmited to this area.
that;s exactly what i wear to church.... and not a miniskirt...opened back... or split down the side dress either.... ..it;s not for anyone else - just for me....it helps me maintain a proper attitude and demeanor in church... .. not everybody does that or sees things that way but i;m not responsible for what they wear to church.... and as far i know they also don;t criticize me for it either.. ....unless they are talking about me behind my back...... if that;s the case i;ll start bringing cheaper donuts to sunday school when it;s my turn to bring them... ... but i won;t change to a raggamuffin grunge look just to make them happy... ....
some men wear jackets and ties... .even full suits.... mostly older men... . but a really nice dress wear and office wear style of aloha shirt ..worn with dress slack or clean non-faded jeans is considered appropriate too.... .. but if someone can;t afford to dress like that they are welcome to come however they are and will never be criticized for it.....
well.... that;s where you might run into problems in hawaii... ..not over men dressing like women or in a womans skirt.. . but we have a lot of samoan families in our church and for samoan men - the sarong... which is the equivalent of a kilt.. is considered high end dress wear.... .. during the scottish festival week i have even seen men of scottish ancestry come to church wearing the traditional tartain kilt to represent the clan of their heritage along with the regalia that goes along with it......
It doesn't describe the attire of a harlot at all despite the literary genre, and, despite the genre, if that kind of attire didn't exist, or the reader had no idea what would generally characterize that attire, the verse would be meaningless.
Feminist trigger warning!
Something we can agree on.
i would never call criticize a schotish highlander or any one else of Celtic or Irish heritage for wearing a kilt out of respect of their heritage and possibly fear of my life.
Those who wear kilts ought to wear something under those kilts especially if it's windy.
but from what i;ve heard - it;s a regulation that they shouldn;t....Those who wear kilts ought to wear something under those kilts especially if it's windy.
.... ....actually, we use to go to the scottish festival every year... .. i have seen some strange and sometimes funny things happen regarding the kilts and those wearing them in the regulatory fashion..... .... i have a few scottish dresses and one kilt with the full set of pipers regalia that goes with it... though i;m not a piper... ...yet.... . maybe someday..... i mostly wear that set up to perform the sword dance.... 
. ...and yes.. i wear mine regulation too.... 
My cousin Curt wears a Kilt to his Celtic Gatherings. He is a "Strongman" as they call themselves. he can lift a 200lb stone and carry it. He can lift an 80 lb pole and throw it over his head. If he came to my church and wanted to wear that, I'd say, Curtis, go right ahead.
my dad was a true strongman... ..at 65 he;s kind of a broken ex-strongman now....
... but for 40 years in his carreer he carried people weighing 200 pounds and sometimes 300 pounds up and down flights of stairs and out of other dire situations in rescues.... and i saw him do the caber toss of what looked like a telephone pole with other firefighters at the station once when one of them was practicing for the scottish festival highland games... ..so i know he could have done that in the games too.... .but even though he is of scottish heritage himself and loved attending the festival he never competed in the games himself... ... people tried to convince him to but he just wasn;t interested.... 
..and then people started snickering and laughing as he struggled trying to get the kilt back down.... . he finally got it down and in place but his face was as red as his hair..... ..the next year as people were talking about that incident from the year before he raised his kilt up to show he had on a pair of board shorts in preparation for the caber toss.... . that was hilarious.....