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You have a right to your opinion, but not to define the terms that I use, in my posts.sawthruglassclearly said:I assume that "cared for" refers to FBCH's offering her some benefit. "Public services" and "a series of, was it Wednesday night studies"? I have no idea what that actually means, or if she could take that to the bank. Given her situation in early 2001 and her age then, she must have had some concerns about her financial future. Being "well cared for" doesn't necessarily mean that she had enough money to take care of herself AND if there was money that was rightfully hers and it was suddenly spirited away by church leadership, then that would've been a travesty! I sincerely hope that she was well cared for, but what I REALLY hope, is that JH had a will and that he cared enough about her to spell out her care and comfort! It was my experience that when the church said that they would "take care of you", what that really meant was that they would barely sustain you, hold it over your head and dictate your actions and responsibilities. If you fell out of favor, then they pulled the "care" and you had no job, no house, no car, and no prospects! Again, a very frightening place to be!
You assumed wrongly.
The series of lessons on finances were taught right before JH died.
In those lessons, he detailed what he had done for Mrs. H, relieving the church of any burden to care for her.
Of course, we did anyway, as it is a policy to pay the widows of our pastors the salary their husband earned until they die.
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