I'm wondering if the bigger question here is why are ppl dreaming about their experience in a place we were at for a relatively brief period of our lives so very long ago? It has always been an ongoing quandary with me as to why 4 years in a place that is now nearly 40 years behind me still feels like a much larger part of my life's experience than just 4 years, and still impacts it more than much larger swaths of time after that?