Several former members and college students have given testimonies of their experiences on SFL. I will post a few.
wuming
July 12, 2014 at 6:01 pm
I have quite a bit of experience at WCBC and LBC and that is EXACTLY what is expected. Zero self-aspiration. Full devotion to the pastor. Complete trust. Complete loyalty. Nuff said.
ItWasntMe
July 11, 2014 at 11:55 am
I went to WCBC for a time, and a white friend of mine was dating a young African American lady.
When a staff member found out, he went to her, told her that she would basically be ruining his ministry, as many people would not go to church where the pastor in a mixed marriage. He counseled her to break up with him, which she did.
I don’t know if he spoke for the staff, or his own personal biases, but I lost MUCH respect for him that day.
Former LBC staff
July 11, 2014 at 3:04 pm
When I was a teenager at LBC (this was before WCBC), the teens were all given a copy of a book called “Christian Datingâ€. The last chapter was all about how God created separate races and so we should keep them that way. Imagine how that felt to me – my parents are different races. It was so ingrained in me, however, to never question anything I was told by an authority figure that I never once brought it up or asked about it.
It was definitely one of the things that always sat at the back of my mind and helped me along when I finally got the nerve up to leave. My mother is one of the interracially married staff members there that you mention, and to this day I still can’t bring myself to ask her about it.
Used-To-Be-Fundy
July 12, 2014 at 1:55 am
Beenthere wrote:
“As for inter-racial staff the only objection is to black and white. Asian, Hispanic, etc is tolerated.â€
That is also my understanding of it. I once witnessed a staff member lament how difficult it must have been for this one kid (the sole black teen at the time) not to be able to date…and I was confused because I noticed Hispanic/White couples frequently at LBC. It took me a while to realize he was only talking about black/anyone else.
Deacon's Son
July 12, 2014 at 1:11 pm
I should add that my first sister’s first relationship ended because “Dr.†Rasmussen told her that her job offer as assistant to the dean of women was in jeopardy if she was dating him. (He worded it in a way to make it ambiguous as to whether he meant dating per se or dating a Hispanic, but I think we knew what he meant. Especially because he also told her that guys like that were bad with money.)
(his siblings attended WCBC)