Funny you should ask, I was listening to Kim Commando the digital goddess who has her own radio show last weekend and someone asked that question. There is a way to do that. I cannot remember the website where you just put in a website name and you can find out who owns a website, with the owners name, email and mailing address. With that info you can then contact the owner and ask to have the content removed from the website. BTW Sherryh it will not remove your photo from the US Postal services stations, just kidding.
Go to her site and if it is not there, write her. Good luck.