I'm still alive and kicking. November and most of December were hard months. My birth father was put on hospice in early November after a serious fall. He was transferred from the VA Hospital in Louisville KY to a nursing home/rehabilitation facility in Corydon IN to be closer to home so my stepmom, who is suffering from dementia, could have my step aunt take her to see Pop every day. Some days she was in no condition to go. One of the nurses took a quick dislike towards Pop and treated him very badly and assaulted him. We filed a grievance. But, while he was in the nursing home, while my stepmom and her sister were around the corner getting her hair done, someone robbed their house stealing $35k, the 400lb safe, and all of my Pop's business papers, will, and receipts for his and my stepmoms cremations. It went from being a local & State of Indiana concern, to also being a federal case because of Pop's owning a partial interest in a couple of oil wells. We're still waiting for answers. At any rate, Pop was moved back to the VA at the insistence of family, and was then allowed to go back home to die. He got saved on November 22nd, and he passed away November 24th. December was hard because a couple of my nieces, whom Pop helped raise, were fighting and arguing over the cremation, and who should pay for it and get reimbursed when the receipt is found. He wasn't cremated until after the 10th of December. They put together a celebration of life for Pop, but they've had to postpone it because of the bad weather that's supposed to be there tomorrow, and because I won't be there, neither will my brother who lives in Montana, nor my sister who I hadn't spoken to in 15 years but was elected to notify about Pops passing, who my Pop hadn't spoken to in nearly 15 years. We have another brother in Orlando who has fried his brain on drugs and wouldn't care one way or the other. Pop hadn't spoken to him in 15+ years.
Sorry that I have unloaded here...guess I just had to get it out of my system.
At any rate, glad to know someone notices absences.