Web said:I guess I didn't phrase my question very effectively.
I understand the James passage. I agree with "as God brings it to mind" although I'm not totally sure that's a scriptural prescriptive.
How many times must we pray for a situation before we know that God has answered that prayer? Are we personally responsible for repeatedly reminding God of the requests of family or friends? Or is He able to answer a one-time prayer for a specific situation?
No scriptural support for such^^Web said:I've struggled with whether to post this or not, as it can be a flashpoint for people, and I truly don't want to offend people, but...
How many times should we pray for requests? If I stop praying at 19 times, and God needed 20 prayers to answer, did I change history? If I pray one time, is that sufficient for God to answer? Does His answer truly depend upon my quantity?
It's not criticism but I'm not understanding your struggle to just pray for her. She's clearly on the right track scripturally, despite the terrible blow. She's identified her need for comfort via prayer for healing. It behooves you to meet that need. And re-assure her you will continue to do so.This came to mind because, I have a Facebook page that someone signed me up for... the baby born has SERIOUS disability issues, and maybe God can have it survive with life-long disabling issues requiring 24/7/365 care for the rest of the child's life. Or, maybe God will do an amazing thing and somehow, miraculously cure all the incredibly serious medical issues that will allow this child to survive without life support, feeding tubes, ostomy tubes, urinary bags, etc.
This afternoon, Mom asked us to pray that the baby would urinate the required amount to show that the child's kidneys and bladder were working properly
I've prayed for this child many times. Do I now need to pray that pee output will increase? Is God not aware of what the child needs in order to survive? I really struggle with this. How much of prayer is about my efforts, and how much is about the ability of God to provide what He wills and desires? What if I fail to pray that "one final prayer" that would have made the difference?