Bro Blue said:
What would you guys say that the modern day deacon ministry ought to look like in light of the bible?
Since the word means servant, I see it as a position of service and ministering to the needs of others, not as a position of authority. The deacons in the Bible were shown waiting tables and making sure food was distributed to the widows and needy. From that, I would say modern deacons should be the ones doing or coordinating service projects and ministering to the needy. Deacons are not there to rule the church or tell the pastor what to do, and it should be a useful position not an honorific or a title given to someone because of social prominence or because they're tithes and attended church for years. Since the Bible and secular sources (Pliny the Younger) mention female deacons/deaconesses, I do think women can serve as deacons when it is a service position (but not when it is misused and becomes sort sort of governing board instead, or when they are expected to fill in for the pastor and preach at times).
I think part of the confusion in many Baptist churches is that we often ignore the position of Elder, or equate it with the office of pastor, and then place the deacons in the role that the elders should have. Elders are the ones who are tasked with helping run the church, making certain decisions, running things in absence of the pastor, etc. It is a position of more authority and this is also where interim pastors should come from if the church is without a pastor for a time. Some churches designate elders as "teaching elders" who preach and "ruling elders" who administrate; That can be a useful distinction and it also sums up their roles in the church. I don't think that it will be possible to have the deacons in their proper ministry role without having the office of Elder, separate and distinct from that of Deacon.