Bus Route Confessions

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I'll warn you ahead of time, you may not want to read this.

Please don't ask me whose bus route I was on or what decade.

Here's what happened:

As always, the bus captains were under pressure to bring more and more kids on their buses.  I was fortunate because my captain and his wife both rode the bus on Sunday morning.

It was my turn to go inside one of the buildings to make sure a child was ready to ride to Hammond.

On the way up the stairs, I encountered the little boy's teenage brother coming up the stairs, as well.  He grabbed me and touched me in an inappropriate manner.  I was in shock.  I managed to get myself to the top of the stairs and ask if the little boy was coming to church.  I can't remember if he did or not.

I walked back to the bus, sat down, stunned and speechless.  The bus captain's wife was perceptive enough to ask me what was wrong.  Since her husband, the bus captain, didn't know, he naturally inquired rather loudly to see if the little boy was going to church.

I must have just been staring straight ahead because he was clearly unhappy with my response.  To his credit, when his wife told him, he came and apologized as I stared out the window for the rest of the trip.

It could have been much worse.  I don't know why I'm telling it now, other than I have some anonymity since my name is not Jo.

I don't think of that event often, but when I do, even decades later, my heart still beats a little bit faster like I want to run.

I've never been impressed when others packed their buses totally full.  I think it fed egos more than anything else.
 
I am so sorry this happened. I firmly believe God will avenge you. I know He loves you.

Inner city ministry is dangerous. I have been accosted more than once myself. I realize sometimes God will send a single female into dangerous circumstances, but we males should make sure we keep the ladies who minister with us, as safe as possible.

God bless you, Jo and I pray you have peace.
 
I'm sorry to hear about that, I hope you find peace. That bus captain should have reported this to local authorities, even if the family no longer rides the bus. No woman deserves this, no one deserves this.
 
Really not surprising things much worse were going on in the World's Youngest Youth Director's Office on a regular basis.
 
My heart goes out to you as a bus & ministry leader, dad and a husband who always let others around me know they were protected, about the situation on your bus route that day. 

Number one:
As a lady on the bus route you should have never been allowed to go into a building like that by yourself.

Number two:
As soon as you made known the situation the predator who stalked you should have been hunted down and turned over to the police. You should've been the priority above and everything else going on that day should have come to a screeching halt until the perpetrator was locked up in custody.





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bgwilkinson said:
Really not surprising things much worse were going on in the World's Youngest Youth Director's Office on a regular basis.

I know.  So very true.  Now that I'm older it's hard for me to understand why more families didn't leave the church.  Definitely worse things done by the youth pastor, who eventually became a pastor in Texas.

You all have been very kind in your responses.  I know my situation was a pebble in the sand, and I rarely think of it, truly.

I read a scripture from Isaiah 43 this morning:

"Lead out those who have eyes but are blind, who have ears but are deaf."

Many of you that contribute to this forum and have responded are doing just that - leading in a great way.  Just want to encourage you to continue.

Thank you for your kindnesses.
 
I am sorry to hear anything like this, and I am also glad you were shielded from further physical harassment.  The incident you endured was bad enough. 

I know there were buildings on my bus route that our bus captain gave us lady workers explicit directions regarding them.  One building was pointed out as a building into which we ladies were not to enter...ever.  Another building we were allowed to enter as long as one or more male worker was with us.

 
Jo, My prayers are with you...
 
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