To my dear staff,
Over the past 33 years we’ve been together through every kind of crisis. Kay and I’ve been privileged to hold your hands as you faced a crisis or loss, stand with you at gravesides, and prayed for you when ill. Today, we need your prayer for us.
No words can express the anguished grief we feel right now. Our youngest son, Matthew, age 27, and a lifelong member of Saddleback, died today.
You who watched Matthew grow up knew he was an incredibly kind, gentle, and compassionate man. He had a brilliant intellect and a gift for sensing who was most in pain or most uncomfortable in a room. He’d then make a bee-line to that person to engage and encourage them.
But only those closest knew that he struggled from birth with mental illness, dark holes of depression, and even suicidal thoughts. In spite of America’s best doctors, meds, counselors, and prayers for healing, the torture of mental illness never subsided. Today, after a fun evening together with Kay and me, in a momentary wave of despair at his home, he took his life.
Kay and I often marveled at his courage to keep moving in spite of relentless pain. I’ll never forget how, many years ago, after another approach had failed to give relief, Matthew said “ Dad, I know I’m going to heaven. Why can’t I just die and end this pain?†but he kept going for another decade.
Thank you for your love and prayers. We love you back.
Rick and Kay
already today I have Unfollowed three people on twitter that have used this tragedy to take swipes at RW teaching.Just John said:Whether you like or agree with Rick Warren you might pray for his family. I learned this morning his youngest son has taken his life. He has had bouts with mental illness much of his life.
OZZY said:already today I have Unfollowed three people on twitter that have used this tragedy to take swipes at RW teaching.Just John said:Whether you like or agree with Rick Warren you might pray for his family. I learned this morning his youngest son has taken his life. He has had bouts with mental illness much of his life.
JUDE 22 some have compassion.
Just John said:To my dear staff,
Over the past 33 years we’ve been together through every kind of crisis. Kay and I’ve been privileged to hold your hands as you faced a crisis or loss, stand with you at gravesides, and prayed for you when ill. Today, we need your prayer for us.
No words can express the anguished grief we feel right now. Our youngest son, Matthew, age 27, and a lifelong member of Saddleback, died today.
You who watched Matthew grow up knew he was an incredibly kind, gentle, and compassionate man. He had a brilliant intellect and a gift for sensing who was most in pain or most uncomfortable in a room. He’d then make a bee-line to that person to engage and encourage them.
But only those closest knew that he struggled from birth with mental illness, dark holes of depression, and even suicidal thoughts. In spite of America’s best doctors, meds, counselors, and prayers for healing, the torture of mental illness never subsided. Today, after a fun evening together with Kay and me, in a momentary wave of despair at his home, he took his life.
Kay and I often marveled at his courage to keep moving in spite of relentless pain. I’ll never forget how, many years ago, after another approach had failed to give relief, Matthew said “ Dad, I know I’m going to heaven. Why can’t I just die and end this pain?†but he kept going for another decade.
Thank you for your love and prayers. We love you back.
Rick and Kay
I quote this email as just yesterday someone mentioned that all depression and anxiety were a result of sin and any psychology was a sham. I knew this young man when he was younger. He was a good kid. He struggled with mental health problems very early in life. He was treated medically, with therapy and prayer for healing yet still took his life. Does that negate therapy? Does that negate prayer? Does it negate God's sovereignty? No.